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Attachment or love?



There is slight difference between the two.
But it is.

1.When you are attached to someone.

a. There is constant fear of losing the person

b. Your happiness, mood, sleep all depends on behaviour of this person.

c. You try to solve their problems and force them to open up even if they don’t want.

d. You expect them to respond, even to your silliest texts.

e. You think, you cannot live without this person.
This makes you dependent on someone.

F. Your mind is trapped with the thoughts of this person, when you are not talking.

2. When you are in love

a. If the person you love has to stay, wil stay. There is no fear of losing.

b. You are concerned about them, but you know that your happiness lies within you.

c. You don’t poke your nose in their lives. They want to open up, they will.

d. You are independent and can take your decisions on your own.

e. You have their passwords but you got a trust too.

F. You love them, not their presence.
It’s the physical and mental connection which matters.

-Noor

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How does it feel to be in love with you?

I am beautifully independent.

I trust you and my heart knows that you love me and can leave me anytime. It’s okay.

You are not perfect, but genuine.

I feel protected when I am around you.

I don’t need to pretend that I am strong.

I am okay being ugly with you.

I don’t need to be vocal about my love, my actions are enough.

I am living the moment and feel alive, when I am with you.

I can cry and can wipe your tears too.

I am not into boring sex, we can actually watch “Netflix and chill.”

I am happy, when I see you peacefully sleeping.

I feel a connection, even when I touch you. I stay “five feet apart” from other men.

I know the fact, that I will never be the same when you will leave me.

It is scary. But you cannot break a broken heart.

My love is so deep that I’ll let you go. Whenever you want.

I know you are always there, mentally.

I am not over thinking and screwing up things.
Because
Today
You are mine. And
I know this.

I know, that I am in love.
Maybe, for a while
With a man, who is
Not, my “Prince charming”
On a white horse.

But, you are the reason
I smile more.
I smile to the level, that
I end up crying.
That’s how it feels
To be
In love
With you.
– Noor

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relationship

Live to lift.

Attachment and seperation are two things which can never stop happening in a life of a person.

We get attached to someone, start liking them and then again some fights and finally seperation.
Those who used to talk for hours now don’t even utter a “Hi” to each other.
I am not asking you to be alone. This is not the solution.
Have some time for yourself and have friendship with those who value you.

Digging the soil, where plants cannot be grown is of no worth.
Accept that sometimes even the best bonds can break.
Live in the moment.
It’s okay.
This is life.

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