Tag Archives: Attachment

poem

Daffodils

And in that moment
I was happy
Like daffodils
In the spring.
Dancing on the melodies
With those curves,
I swing.
Like the world is mine
I am the moon, and
The Sunshine.
And the universe needs,
All of me
To survive.
The pain was fainted
The smile has arrived.
The rain said
“I am not helping you crying”.
The soil is nourished
Asking me to “grow for a while.”
My heart found its rhythms
And walked  a mile.
I wasn’t following the footsteps
But  was my own guide.
I lived in the present.
Maybe till winter arrive.
I may shed one day
But I won’t cry.
Because in that moment,
I didn’t gave up on life.
I was life.

– Noor

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Dating, relationship

Attachment or love?



There is slight difference between the two.
But it is.

1.When you are attached to someone.

a. There is constant fear of losing the person

b. Your happiness, mood, sleep all depends on behaviour of this person.

c. You try to solve their problems and force them to open up even if they don’t want.

d. You expect them to respond, even to your silliest texts.

e. You think, you cannot live without this person.
This makes you dependent on someone.

F. Your mind is trapped with the thoughts of this person, when you are not talking.

2. When you are in love

a. If the person you love has to stay, wil stay. There is no fear of losing.

b. You are concerned about them, but you know that your happiness lies within you.

c. You don’t poke your nose in their lives. They want to open up, they will.

d. You are independent and can take your decisions on your own.

e. You have their passwords but you got a trust too.

F. You love them, not their presence.
It’s the physical and mental connection which matters.

-Noor

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relationship

Live to lift.

Attachment and seperation are two things which can never stop happening in a life of a person.

We get attached to someone, start liking them and then again some fights and finally seperation.
Those who used to talk for hours now don’t even utter a “Hi” to each other.
I am not asking you to be alone. This is not the solution.
Have some time for yourself and have friendship with those who value you.

Digging the soil, where plants cannot be grown is of no worth.
Accept that sometimes even the best bonds can break.
Live in the moment.
It’s okay.
This is life.

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