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Dating, relationship

Attachment or love?



There is slight difference between the two.
But it is.

1.When you are attached to someone.

a. There is constant fear of losing the person

b. Your happiness, mood, sleep all depends on behaviour of this person.

c. You try to solve their problems and force them to open up even if they don’t want.

d. You expect them to respond, even to your silliest texts.

e. You think, you cannot live without this person.
This makes you dependent on someone.

F. Your mind is trapped with the thoughts of this person, when you are not talking.

2. When you are in love

a. If the person you love has to stay, wil stay. There is no fear of losing.

b. You are concerned about them, but you know that your happiness lies within you.

c. You don’t poke your nose in their lives. They want to open up, they will.

d. You are independent and can take your decisions on your own.

e. You have their passwords but you got a trust too.

F. You love them, not their presence.
It’s the physical and mental connection which matters.

-Noor

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Dating, relationship

Do you ever get out of love?


Person you have loved once
you can never unlove them.

This is a harsh truth.

The part of yours
Will always be attached to that person. But
Your more efforts
Won’t make the person
Fall in love with you.

Accept this
Start exploring
Focus on better things.

One day
All the memories
Would fade away
New memories will
Take place.

Someone else
Will reciprocate
Your love.
You will heal
You won’t feel
The need
Of that person.

It is what it is.
God has planned
Something else.

Be patient

One who has to
Nurture you.
Will stay
No matter what

So
Stop crying
Over the one
Who are gone
They were meant to
Leave.

-Noor

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Live to lift.

Attachment and seperation are two things which can never stop happening in a life of a person.

We get attached to someone, start liking them and then again some fights and finally seperation.
Those who used to talk for hours now don’t even utter a “Hi” to each other.
I am not asking you to be alone. This is not the solution.
Have some time for yourself and have friendship with those who value you.

Digging the soil, where plants cannot be grown is of no worth.
Accept that sometimes even the best bonds can break.
Live in the moment.
It’s okay.
This is life.

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Is it worth fighting for?

A harsh truth
Someone, who has never loved you
Never, even going to love you.

So, is it worth fighting for that one?
Everytime.
Who cannot reciprocate
Your affection and adoration.

I know we are humans.Getting attached to someone
Is not in our control.

But, you can
“Limit your love.”
Keep some love to yourself.
The love that will
Nurture you.
Heal you.
Later.

The only love you pay someone
Who will love you
More than you love them.

I believe
We breathe in the same world.
With same stories.
Revolving around
At different times.
With different people.

So “preserve little love”
Than “Draining it on someone”
Who is not worth fighting for.

-Noor

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