Category Archives: Dating

Dating, relationship

Attachment or love?



There is slight difference between the two.
But it is.

1.When you are attached to someone.

a. There is constant fear of losing the person

b. Your happiness, mood, sleep all depends on behaviour of this person.

c. You try to solve their problems and force them to open up even if they don’t want.

d. You expect them to respond, even to your silliest texts.

e. You think, you cannot live without this person.
This makes you dependent on someone.

F. Your mind is trapped with the thoughts of this person, when you are not talking.

2. When you are in love

a. If the person you love has to stay, wil stay. There is no fear of losing.

b. You are concerned about them, but you know that your happiness lies within you.

c. You don’t poke your nose in their lives. They want to open up, they will.

d. You are independent and can take your decisions on your own.

e. You have their passwords but you got a trust too.

F. You love them, not their presence.
It’s the physical and mental connection which matters.

-Noor

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Dating, relationship

Do you ever get out of love?


Person you have loved once
you can never unlove them.

This is a harsh truth.

The part of yours
Will always be attached to that person. But
Your more efforts
Won’t make the person
Fall in love with you.

Accept this
Start exploring
Focus on better things.

One day
All the memories
Would fade away
New memories will
Take place.

Someone else
Will reciprocate
Your love.
You will heal
You won’t feel
The need
Of that person.

It is what it is.
God has planned
Something else.

Be patient

One who has to
Nurture you.
Will stay
No matter what

So
Stop crying
Over the one
Who are gone
They were meant to
Leave.

-Noor

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Dating

Hook ups or hooked up?

Do you think
Your body
Can have it with anyone?
In the name of casual sex.
Because it sounds “casual”.
I strongly believe
There is a language
In which
Two bodies interact
Connect to each other
They know the “touch”.
They know that “trust level”.

You say
“Friends with benefits”
Is the trend.
I believe
It is stout.
You need boundaries
You need control.
You ask your feelings to hold on.

Command your brain
Teach your heart
The polar sex,
Is not in love with you.

We are friends,
nothing is going to change.


It looks simple, yet complex.

You call it hormones
I call it “hormotions”
Hormones and emotions.
Brave are the people
Who can do this.
Brave?
No,
May be broken and shielded.
They too don’t want this
Maybe, they too seek love.
But seeing themselves crushed in love
Again.
No
This is better.
Right?
But tough
Than love.
And
And
And
“You are not cool”
If you are following the trend.
This is just a “few minute” pleasure.

You cannot beat, love
It is still the real happiness.
Create a wall around your emotions
If you want to be in the game.

But, guess what?
Man, is a bundle of emotions.
                                            – Noor

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